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 | By Shelley Metcalf

God is always near, don’t divert

In mid-July as I walked out of the gym, I got a strong whiff of skunk. It was just before dawn, and I was walking home, so I made a mental note to be extra aware on my walk. Sure enough, just as I came across a culvert, there was a stinky fellow looking for his breakfast. I quickly gave him a wide berth.

As I got around it, I saw a woman walking directly toward the little guy. I loudly warned her there was a skunk, but she kept moving. That’s when I realized she was looking at her phone and had headphones on.

I rushed toward her and spoke loudly again, but still no reaction, so

I reached out and touched her arm. She jumped, whipped off her headphones and looked at me in terror. I told her that I just wanted to warn her about the skunk that was just 100 or so feet ahead. She was very thankful and diverted as I had.

This whole incident got me thinking about how often I miss opportunities or warnings because my eyes are buried in a screen or my brain is off in wonderland. How many times do I miss God’s presence because my head is down and my heart is hard?

There is not a doubt in my mind that God is always near: in my kids, in my co-workers, in the sunrise, in the rain and even in those pesky nuisances of life (skunks) — I just have to keep my eyes open, my ears tuned and my heart soft so that I can recognize him and his work.

For the rest of my walk home that morning, I sang to myself: Open my eyes, Lord, help me to see your face … Open my ears, Lord, help me to hear your voice … Open my heart Lord, help me to love like you.

For the record, I saw two more skunks but no people on the way home that morning. The stinky little suckers were up early because of the summer heat, kind of like me.


Shelley Metcalf has worked on the Catholic Spirit staff since 1997; she was named editor in 2007. She is a parishioner of St. Margaret Mary Parish in Cedar Park.